Sexually, am a top only and enjoy giving spankings/whippings (especially constructive discipline) and to do the things that make you say 'that hurts but feels good'. Also do like to include some sex if agreed. I like to find out what turns you on and then to have you struggle and squirm a little from being hard. There is the rough/kinky/dominant side but also very much the caring/compassionate side as well. Also, I am always willing to try new things.