I'm slim, athletic, and very active and young in appearance. Every once in a while I need to be treated like a bad boy, and get my bottom tanned. That can be with our without role play, but I always like to put in a juvenile position. (Over the knee or otherwise). I am thinking about having a disciplinarian in my life: someone who can set limits and enforce them. I am eventually hoping to find a mentor who will help me guide my behavior through rules and punishments.