First, what I'm actively looking for: have been following online doms' orders to spank myself (usually on cam) since I was 16. I have a bf who isn't really into spanking (though he gets in a mood where he'll do it once in a while), but he doesn't object to self-spanking on cam. I only do it when I'm alone, which isn't *often* or predictable with 7 roommates. What I'm passively open to finding would be a hot third person (ideally top/vers) to possibly meet, as it's a fantasy the bf and I both have but have never acted on in 4 yrs together. Either way, for more info feel free to msg/e-mail me, sirs...