| hi i'm jack... i'm 27, a musician and artist, and i'm casting my net as wide as i can to get in contact with friendly, charismatic spankos for ongoing friendship, play and possibly more. ive been really into spanking ever since i can remember. its not the entirety of my sexuality, but it is an integral part of it, and if the intimacy and chemistry are there then almost nothing makes me feel as deeply satisfied as when i'm being punished by a capable, caring guy. in spanking i'm mostly a bottom, and in fucking i'm mostly a top, but neither are necessarily preferences set in stone. ideally i want to meet someone around my age (10 years either way or so) to have an ongoing relationship with... friendship and dom/sub first and then what ever might spring from that after. playing with a guy is always better when i really like them and can relate to them outside of the scene. i'm not closed off to playing with anyone regardless of age or appearance, just so long as they understand that while anyone may spank me, im much much pickier about who i have sex with, and sexual reciprocation is not guaranteed as part of the scene. please don't jam anything up my ass or ask me to get you off unless i say that i want to, and if my dicks not hard thats a signal. i like scenes that lean towards domestic discipline... you dont need a reason to grab me by the ear and throw me over your knee, but if you want to frame the situation with role play (lecturing, cornertime etc) i'm into it. i like guys to be dominate and humiliate me a little verbally... i like to be spanked by hand, hairbrush, paddle and strap. i'm not into canes or floggers. my pain tolerance fluctuates depending on my mood, but ive been told by all of the guys that i play with that i have a high threshold and am a bit of a power bottom. i like the other guy to be in control and let the top decide how long and hard its going to be. i try to take as much as i can, and if your good at what you do then you can read my body language and safe words arn't necessary. the more trust we have between us, the more i'll let you push my limits. sometimes spankings are really erotic, other times they just hurt, and i take them either way. physically, i've got some xtra pounds on me, and whether thats average or chubby seems to vary entirely on who is describing me, but all of them tell me i have a nice ass. i live in oakland but put san francisco as my city because it seems thats where most of the guys i meet live. i can host in oakland or come to you. so thats all pretty detailed right? i have lots of other interests and varied sides to my personality but since the sites called manspank i wanted to stay on topic. i'm really personable and eager to play, so please dont be shy about contacting me. you can do so here or write me. thanks for taking the time to read this, and looking forward to hearing from you. |